F for Friend: Part-1; F for Fun

A has moved to his new school as his parent got transferred. He was all in tears to hit the new school.

DAY-1

A, staring the class-room, sitting alone in the 3^rd row, looking desperately at his new classmates thinking what’s new in store for him. Then a rugged hair guy comes next to him

B: Hi!!

A(taken aback): erggg…. Hi!!!

B: I’m B. You??

A: I’m A. New to this school

B: New bee-wee. Ha Ha!! That’s not a joke; I know but anyhow please give a smile

A(smiles)

 

DAY-2

A: Hi B!

B: Hi A! Come. Why are you always hiding your lunch? Have you got a bomb in it??

A: No. Can I Join with you?

B: With pleasure only if you have the heart to share your lunch and dare to taste ours!!

A comes and opens his lunch

B: Mmmmm... My taste buds are fighting! I love Chapathi and you’ve Chenna for it. Oh! I’m dying.. Give it! Give it!

A: What’s in yours??

B: Sambhar rice. You like it??

A: Ya!! I die for Sambhar!!

B: Then take a big hand! And give your number

A: Why?

B: You die for Sambhar na?? I need to inform your mom about your impending death

A (smiles)

 

DAY-3

Sir: Student not submits homework. Out you go. If find I, you kicked by I. all homework incomplete defaulters, not submit defaulters get out.

A walks out unable to control his laugh for grammatical sentences and to his horror he found a hand dropped on his shoulders. It was B

B: Where are you walking?? Hitler will be on rounds. Let’s move to canteen

A: But it drizzles

B: I love walking in the rain. Come buddy!!

After they enter into canteen

A: It’s cool to walk in rain

B: You have to learn two rules of B

A: Sorry!!

B: Rule 1: B is always correct

A: Rule 2??

B: Rule 2: If you think B is wrong, Listen to Rule 1!! Ok! Get me a coffee to counter this chill

A: But you pay the bill

B: Hare Silent A has learnt to speak boldly ehmm... kya Secret??

A: Being with B, I’ve started to inherit few of him

As they giggle, the flower in the tree besides the canteen joins with them, laughing and dancing in the wind signaling the blossoming of their friendship. ( I know this is a worse comparison)

 

Enough of breaking your head in perceiving (Lancelot for you) whether I’m A or B. Guess everyone would’ve experienced these incidents and I’m not an exemption. Few of you may be A and has a chirpy and naughty friend as B, vice versa. If not school, you would’ve had in college. Hands in one Tiffin box, A jokes, Nicknames, Midnight Birthday Wishes, Treats, Crush on the same girl, Gifts, Long Drive in Bike, Chilling at Hang-out spots like Chat, Pizza shops, Theaters, Foot-board in bus, Last minute Group Study, Worthless SMSes, Fights, Cries, Tears, Hugs and loads and loads more, all come under the same roof of Friendship.

 

What is a friend? A single soul dwelling in two bodies!! 

Who told?? The Great Karthik 

SLAP SLAP SLAP!! 

Ok! I know you won't believe. Said by Aristotle. But you believe this ehmm?? Bad world!!  

Perhaps the one relation that has survived the trials and tribulations of time and has still remained unconditional is friendship. A unique blend of affection, loyalty, love, respect, trust and loads of fun is perhaps what describes the true meaning of friendship between two individuals. Similar interests, mutual respect and strong attachment with each other are what friends share between each other. These are just the general traits of a friendship. To experience what is friendship, one must have true friends, who are indeed rare treasure. 

 

Few say, we have same wavelength and same likings and so we became friends and others say, we are like magnets “Unlike Poles Attract” and we have different tastes but somehow we are fascinated to each other. Others say, I don’t know what made us friends, it just happened. You don’t know what kind of friend you need until you see them. All I can tell you, no matter what, no matter how, Friendship happens just in a blink of an eye.

 

Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born. Different people have different definitions of friendship. For some, it is the trust in an individual that he / she won't hurt you. For others, it is unconditional love. There are some who feel that friendship is companionship. People form definitions based on the kind of experiences they have had. This is one relation that has been nurtured since times immemorial. There are famous stories about friends in mythologies of different religions all over the world. They say a person who has found a faithful friend has found a priceless treasure. 

 

Psychologically speaking, friendship may be defined as "a dynamic, mutual relationship between two individuals. As children become friends, they negotiate boundaries within which both partners function".This helps them to function like healthy individuals in life as they learn to draw a line as and when needed in a relation. This greatly helps in the emotional development of an individual. However, any relation needs constant nurturing and development from all the people that are involved in one. Friendship cannot survive if one person makes all the effort to sustain it without any mutual recognition from others. 

Since friendship starts the moment a child starts socializing, the kind of friends that the child chooses should be taken care of till the time he / she learns to differentiate between right and wrong. Wrong peers or lack of socializing can lead to severe psychological traumas and disorders, finally leading to social maladjustment. The correct peer group is essential for the development of the personality of a child. Both positive and negative experiences refine the personality of the individual. Thus it is essential that you find friends who are compatible with you on an emotional and psychological basis.

Am tired of Long and so-called Humor posts. So now, let me try my hands on Part-by-part posts. This is my first attempt on relations and hope it'll churn out well, giving a new perspective to my Blogger friends on Friendship

 

To be continued....... (Shorter than Ekta's serial)

 

 

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